Tantra Speed Date - San Francisco!

Thu Mar 1 (full schedule below)
The Center SF
07:15 PM
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“A one of a kind dating/connection experience that is a must for mindful singles!” -Mike M.
“Words fail me.  It just felt right!” -Matthew H.
“Guy is an amazing facilitator.  This work is deep, fun, and a great service.” -Benjamin C.

Tired of swiping, mindless chit-chat and awkward first dates?
Come meet mindful singles at our Puja-inspired dating event.  Our playful exercises will bring out your best self so you can get to know your dates in an authentic way.  
You'll share a few moments of connection with each date in a traditional Puja circle.  Exercises are fun and PG-rated (think communication games, actor's improv, partner yoga, etc.), and of course you're always in charge of how you want to participate. After the event, you'll receive your matches.
*NOTE: We strongly recommend you sign up online in advance, as these events do sell out.  Door sales will be admitted based on gender balance and capacity.  
**Please arrive 15-20mins early to check in.
Tickets: $30 EarlyBird; $40 Online Pre-purchase; $50 Cash at door.  

“A one of a kind dating/connection experience that is a must for mindful singles!” -Mike M.
“Words fail me.  It just felt right!” -Matthew H.
“The people were awake and sensitive and courageous!” -Cynthia G.
“Guy is an amazing facilitator.  This work is deep, fun, and a great service.” -Benjamin C.
“This event helped heal a lot of fear I had about the male figure.  Guy ran such beautiful exercises. I felt myself beginning to heal.” -Anonymous
“It's very healing. You forget that this is a romantic intention. It's soulful.” -Michelle L.
"This type of experience should be offered nationwide, to reduce peoples feelings of isolation and loneliness. If people had access to an experience like this on a weekly basis, the world would be a kinder and happier place" -Anonymous
“A heart centered event and beautifully organized to open up in both giving and receiving love” -Rick C.
“Incredible opportunity to fall into my feminine energy in a way I can’t usually experience!” -Genevieve
“A unique and beautiful experience. Try it for yourself.”  -Bryn D.
“I was grateful that this wasn't incredibly awkward and was in fact mostly pleasant and fun.” -Anonymous

“This was excellent! Really want to know how to be this all the time.” -Anonymous
“Great way to meet people who are in touch with themselves, and want deeper connections with others” -Anonymous
“A beautifully held night of fun and connection. It took the angst and panic out of meeting new potential partners and just had fun connecting and healing.” -Hannah L.
“Truly enjoyed bonding, more than just dating” -Marvin Q.
“Way better option of meeting and connecting to people.” -Ralf P.
“It's a beautiful healing experience of love” -Anonymous
“Wonderful to feel a roomful of strangers come together and build a safe container where people were so comfortable sharing their vulnerability and offering each other comfort and security” -Anonymous
“A great way to connect and meet new people in an awakened setting.” -Anonymous 
“Come for the connection, spiritual and sensual” -Anonymous
“Definitely worth checking out” -Anonymous

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What is Tantra?
Well, for starters, it's not what you saw in the movie American Pie!  Tantra is thousands of years old and has become a buzzword, which unfortunately has some misleading definitions.  Translated from Sanskrit, it means "weaving," which we come to understand as oneness.  Bringing oneness to yourself and consciousness to what you do.  The exercises involving breathing and meditation that are a part of Tantra are designed to bring you into a state of being more present.  And who doesn't want to be more present, right?
What is a Tantra Puja?
Puja (in Sanskrit) literally means reverence, honor, an offering.  Tantra Puja is an ancient ritual designed to open our hearts and allow us to see the inner beauty and the Divine within ourselves and all beings.  It invites us into the elegant dance of masculine and feminine in a warm space of oneness and connection.  What better way to start your first date!  
What does it look like?
Participants form two circles facing each other.  The men form the outside circle and the women form the inside, with each woman facing a man.  Each pair then share a meaningful exchange with each other in a directed exercise (called a “Puja station”), which can be for a few seconds or a few minutes.  Then they both put their hands in Namaste, thank each other and--like a speed date--rotate to the next person.  The Puja ends when everyone has rotated enough that we’ve come full circle.
What are some exercises that happen in a Puja station?
We’ll do some basic connection exercises: breathing, meditation, light partner yoga, speaking a vulnerability, eye-gazing, conscious touch (holding hands, hands on heart)… things that go a bit beyond the obligatory “what do you do/where are you from” of most first dates.  And you’re always invited to go as deep as you choose.
What if there are exercises I don’t feel comfortable doing?
We try to keep the exercises light and fun, but it’s always up to you how much you want to participate.  And just like in yoga when you find a pose you’re not comfortable with, you have the option to modify it to your taste, or go with a basic Namaste to your partner.  
So how is this a dating event?
What makes this a speed date is that you get to choose who you enjoyed interacting with in your Puja station and we'll put you in touch after the event.  We like to let the women choose.  The women will get to sense each man’s personality and presence and decide who they want to get to know better.  Men will be instructed on how to be grounded and open-hearted so they can be felt.  We trust the wisdom of the feminine it all works out.
What should I wear?
You'll want to be celebratory but also comfortable.  You can bring sarongs, yoga pants, etc.  Though we've had some folks show up in suits and they manage just fine.  
What is the Tantra Institute of New York?
The Tantra Institute’s mission is to empower people to connect more consciously using the tools and teachings of Tantra.  We hold multiple events, such as our extremely popular Tantra Night! Event, and work with singles and couples to help them increase their capacity for intimacy, authenticity, and pleasure.
What if I really like Tantra and want to learn more?
Most people do!  If you're in New York, come to our other events, such as Tantra Night! and visit our Facebook page to learn more!
What if I still have more questions?
Contact us, we’ll be happy to tell you more about this event or others.

Your Facilitator:
Daka Guy, Co-Founder of The Tantra Institute of New York, is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach, who has been weaving together sex and spirit his entire life. He has studied with a broad range of prominent modalities and teachers, and is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator (trained and endorsed by Charles Muir). Add to that his deep well of personal experience in coaching hundreds of clients in achieving greater intimacy, attracting the opposite sex, and living powerfully from their desire, and it is likely that any question or situation you have, Guy has can answer. He speaks, teaches, and coaches in New York and around the world, and has appeared at Dark Odyssey, Burning Man, and other events.


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